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9/11You Don't Deserve To Be Happy, Loved ( Bad Object)
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- 2022-12-26
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- Topics
- narcissism, personality, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths, antisocial, cold empathy, psychopathology, therapy, relationships, abuse, divorce, battering, spousal abuse, domestic violence, psychotherapy, personality disorders, cluster B, DSM, self, ego, object relations, psychodynamics, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, borderline, psychology, psychiatry, pathology, inverted, compensatory, mortification, psychopath, somatic, cerebral, bad object, happiness, lovable, love
- Language
- English
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- 292.0M
Anger at dead parents who install and instill harsh inner critic (superego is part of ego and impairs reality testing).
Bad object messaging: 1. You are unlovable 2. You don’t deserve happiness.
All people are lovable (number of permutations with 6 billion adults, even serial killers in prison)
Happiness is not a desert, it has to be merited and earned
But bad object uses introject to generate ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) which are self-sabotaging (self-undermining), self-defeating, self-harmful, self-trashing, and self-destructive.
Some people reject happiness and embrace misery. They belong to either of three groups.
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
Bad object messaging: 1. You are unlovable 2. You don’t deserve happiness.
All people are lovable (number of permutations with 6 billion adults, even serial killers in prison)
Happiness is not a desert, it has to be merited and earned
But bad object uses introject to generate ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) which are self-sabotaging (self-undermining), self-defeating, self-harmful, self-trashing, and self-destructive.
Some people reject happiness and embrace misery. They belong to either of three groups.
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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